Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Girls Just Wanna Fun! : Make-Up Party

Chellu has been asking me for a make-up party since a long time..one where all her girl-friends can come over and she can apply some part of make-up for them. I was trying to put it off for the longest time..just the whole idea of a make-up party for such small children seemed not so okay. But when we played beauty parlor beauty parlor recently again , I realized that the girls really don't attach much importance to the looks of it..there is really no vanity attached to it. Its the sheer fun of "applying" something on somebody. They do so with a lot of focus.

And so we finally planned one. Chellu chose to write the invite card for each of her friends. It was a lot of writing for someone who doesn't write much at all. I was quite surprised with her enthusiasm..proves the fact that when the purpose is well-defined and personal then doing any amount of  "academics" is easy!
On the D day both the girls got up early and on got all ready for the event. They neatly arranged all the make-up and even the sponge cakes !
Four of Chellu's friends came over. Chellu applied nail paint to everyone while Kunju did mehendi.I did the facial make-up. The looks on everyone's faces was totally worth it. They were ssssssso excited about the whole thing.
Later on we Hema with Zoya and Ravi joined in and Hema did nail-art and mehendi with the girls. Shankar  & I  had a gr8 time chatting with them especially since the fathers hardly get to meet up. Zoya and Chellu did their very secretive, private sort of make-up stuff in the background in the midst of all the chatting. They were playing some game and apparently make-up happened as a part of that game.

As for me I was glad for having hosted the party from start to end. Just to share that kind of enthusiasm and joy with the girls was something. It kind of rekindled the " young happening girl" within me that somehow gets buried under motherhood. Reminded me of an older self when "looks" were so important , when nail polish was more imp than food!! Reminded me of how painstakingly I would put on make-up for any imp function and the thrill I would derive from it, irrespective of whether anyone else appreciated it or not! And then realized that the girls , especially Chellu was indeed so much like me. What's there to be scared of her liking for make-up really? She might turn out to be just like me and she will be absolutely fine. But even that is a far off event. What's more important is that the party in itself brought in so much joy for myself and my girls along with others. To have connected with them through a common liking/passion is of utmost importance. And I could see that the girls were so happy for the rest of the day. They got to exercise their artistic skills, play with their friends, do smnthg that they all liked and become closer to everyone. The party changed the mindset of one of the child who wasn't keen on coming over to our house earlier . But since this party her mom told us that she has become very happy with us!
Last but not the least, I even got a secret "thank-you" in my ears from Chellu before she winded down to sleep! ;))

1 comment:

  1. This is so cool! Veda would have totally done it all! The mehendi especially and the lipstick. Hope we can join the next time around..If I can figure out how to get there with her..